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Infertility

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For many people, starting a family is something they have always imagined would happen naturally. When it doesn’t, the experience of trying to conceive can become one of the most emotionally challenging times in a person’s life, affecting their mental health, their relationship, their work and their sense of hope for the future.

Fertility problems are more common than many people realise, and they can affect anyone, of any background. Causes can relate to either partner, and in some cases no clear cause is ever found. Because it is often a private and sensitive subject, many people go through it quietly, without the support they need.

In this support hub, we explain what infertility is, when to speak to your GP, what treatment options are available through the NHS and privately, and how to choose a licensed clinic. You’ll also find trusted organisations offering information, advice and emotional support at the end of the page.

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    Pineapples have become a powerful symbol for women struggling with infertility, hence a picture of a Pineapple has been selected for this resource, for many in the infertility community, the pineapple has become a symbol of hope and resilience

    Around 1 in 7 couples may have difficulty conceiving, however for some despite having regular unprotected sex they cannot get pregnant which is also known as infertility. Infertility is usually only diagnosed when a couple have not managed to conceive after a year of trying.

    For couples who have been trying to conceive for more than 3 years without any success the likelihood is then reduced to 1 in 4 or less.

    It is not always possible to identify the cause of infertility and fertility problems as there are many.

    Various treatments and options are available, and these will depend on what is causing the problem. While you may feel that talking to your GP is embarrassing or you don’t feel comfortable doing it, it is best to be as open and honest as you can. It is also beneficial for both partners to attend the appointments as infertility can affect either partner.

    Your GP will be able to do an initial assessment and then discuss your options with you for what to do next.

    Some treatments may be available from your local Integrated Care Board (ICB) and your GP may be able to advise you of this, unfortunately fertility treatment isn’t available on the NHS is all areas.

    Treatments are also available privately, but it can be costly and there are no guarantees.

    If you are considering private treatment, you should choose your private clinic carefully your GP may be able to give you advice or recommend a hospital/clinic.

    You should make sure that you choose a clinic that’s licensed by the Human Fertilisation and Embryo Authority (HFEA)

    Trying to conceive can be an emotional process and stress is just one factor that can affect fertility. But being able to support each other throughout the process as much as possible is important.

    Whatever challenges you are facing, you are not alone, and information and support is available to help you.

    We have listed some websites below who provide general information, advice and support, you may also find further support available from clinics in your local area.

    Fertility Support Links:

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