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Body Image

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How we see and feel about our bodies can have a big impact on our confidence, relationships and mental health. With edited images, filters and “perfect” bodies on every screen, it’s easy to start comparing ourselves to others and to feel that we don’t measure up.

Body image concerns can affect anyone, of any age, gender or background. For some people, worries about appearance come and go, but for others they can become constant and overwhelming, stopping them from socialising, going out or enjoying everyday life. In some cases, they can be a sign of a condition called body dysmorphic disorder (BDD).

In this article, we look at what body image is, how it can affect your wellbeing, simple ways to build a more positive relationship with your body, and where to find trusted support for young people, adults and parents or caregivers. If you are struggling and need to talk to someone now, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123, any time.

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    ‘Body Image is a term to describe how we think and feel about our bodies, including how satisfied we are with our bodies and how much we value what other people think about our bodies.’ – Mental Health Foundation

    The pressures of how we should look are everywhere and we are constantly reminded to compare and critique ourselves against others

    Influencers are asking you to work out 5 times a week, stay within a calorie deficit, meal prep and lift weights to stay toned and have a ‘great’ body. When in reality, not everyone wants to do this

    Being unhappy about the way your body looks long term can have a lasting impact on your health and wellbeing. Being obsessively worried about perceived ‘flaws’ in your appearance can stop you going out and socialising with friends; Worrying about what you will wear or what people will think of you

    Having people around you that support and build you up is so important for your confidence and wellbeing

    Body image is about your attitudes, beliefs, and perceptions of your own body. Positive body image is related to body satisfaction and acceptance. Be kind to yourself and improve your relationship with your body. Below are some ways to do this:

    Stop comparing yourself to others. When you are faced with ‘perfect people’ on television, social media and magazine covers, you will compare yourself to them. Researchers found that viewing others’ posts on social media can reduce self-esteem
    Do activities that make you feel good. Attending classes and the gym may not be for you and therefore can make you feel unhappy. It is much easier to find something you enjoy such as a dance class or outdoor activity which will motivate you more
    Find inspiration. Consider unfollowing and unsubscribing from pages that make you feel negatively toward yourself and replace them with content creators that uplift you
    Appreciate its remarkability. How amazing is your body? It heals bones, it can create another life, it builds new cells each day- billions of them! And so much more. Focus on what your body can do instead of the way it looks or the things it can’t do
    Negative into Positive. Speaking negatively about your body is unhelpful, especially about things you can’t change. What you say to yourself matters. It is unrealistic to go from loving to hating, but slowly work your way towards acceptance

    Struggling with the way you look long term can be an indication of body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) It’s a problem only you can see and can seriously affect all aspects of life such as relationships with family and friends, your work and also your studying. It can lead to depression and even suicidal thoughts

    ‘1 in 8 adults have experienced suicidal thoughts or feelings because of concerns about their body image’ – Mental Health UK

    Reach out to your GP or local mental health service if you feel you need support

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